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Nam\u00edsto toho, aby rodi\u010de rozhodovali o tom, jak bude prob\u00edhat […]","datePublished":"2026-05-07","dateModified":"2026-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"belagio.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a308740_w2200_t1519822445.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a308740_w2200_t1519822445.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/rizika-volne-vychovy\/","wordCount":485,"articleBody":"\tPopularita voln\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy zd\u00e1 se, m\u00e1 u\u017e nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed boom za sebou. A je to dob\u0159e, nebo\u0165 d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed jasn\u011b dan\u00e9 hranice, ve kter\u00fdch se mohou bezpe\u010dn\u011b pohybovat. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de nedok\u00e1\u017eou odhadnout spr\u00e1vnou m\u00edru svobody, kterou d\u011bti ve sv\u00e9m rozvoji tak\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed a st\u00e1vaj\u00ed se tak v\u00a0podstat\u011b otroky sv\u00fdch rozmazlen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Nam\u00edsto toho, aby rodi\u010de rozhodovali o tom, jak bude prob\u00edhat \u017eivot v\u00a0rodin\u011b, pod\u0159izuj\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9 d\u011bn\u00ed d\u011btem a sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby absolutn\u011b potla\u010d\u00ed. Ve v\u00fdsledku to \u0161kod\u00ed v\u0161em, rodi\u010de neuspokojuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby na \u00fakor d\u011bt\u00ed a d\u011bti nemaj\u00ed uspokojenou pot\u0159ebu jasn\u011b dan\u00e9ho \u0159\u00e1du. Pokud chceme v\u00a0d\u011btech vybudovat respekt k\u00a0ostatn\u00edm lidem, mus\u00edme prim\u00e1rn\u011b my jako rodi\u010de respektovat tak\u00e9 sebe.\t\tVoln\u00e1 v\u00fdchova nebo nedostatek \u010dasu a pozornosti v\u011bnovan\u00e9 d\u011btem? \tN\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de maj\u00ed tendence zam\u011b\u0148ovat volnou v\u00fdchovu s\u00a0nez\u00e1jmem o d\u011bti. V\u00fdsledkem jsou pak deprivovan\u00e9 d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 tou\u017e\u00ed po rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 pozornosti. Nezvl\u00e1dnut\u00e1 liber\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchova m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k\u00a0agresivit\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed, probl\u00e9m\u016fm v\u00a0komunikaci s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi d\u011btmi, nebo\u0165 d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed zvykl\u00e9 p\u0159izp\u016fsobovat se druh\u00fdm a neum\u00ed se ovl\u00e1dat. Jejich hranice nejsou jasn\u011b nastaven\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b nev\u00ed, kam a\u017e m\u016f\u017ee zaj\u00edt. Nev\u00ed, co je to respekt k\u00a0druh\u00fdm, jsou zvykl\u00e9 jednat jen podle sv\u00fdch pot\u0159eb a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed.\u00a0 P\u0159itom je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee je p\u0159irozenou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed v\u00fdvoje d\u00edt\u011bte zkou\u0161et, kam a\u017e m\u016f\u017ee zaj\u00edt, co si m\u016f\u017ee a nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit. Pokud mu jako rodi\u010de nepom\u016f\u017eeme ujasnit si limity, d\u00edt\u011b si je samo nenastav\u00ed.\t\tSnaha vychov\u00e1vat jinak ne\u017e d\u0159\u00edv\t\u0158ada rodi\u010d\u016f argumentuje t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00fdchova je\u0161t\u011b v\u00a0minul\u00e9m stolet\u00ed byla p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 direktivn\u00ed a potla\u010dovala jakoukoliv v\u016fli d\u00edt\u011bte. V\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch vl\u00e1dli despoti\u010dt\u00ed otcov\u00e9, kter\u00e9 ostatn\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 rodiny v\u010detn\u011b matek poslouchali na slovo. Situace se z\u00e1sadn\u011b zm\u011bnila. Sou\u010dasn\u00ed otcov\u00e9 \u010dasto domovem jen prolet\u00ed, a tak v\u00fdchova je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na matk\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 nav\u00edc \u010dasto odsuzuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 autoritativn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch partner\u016f. Dal\u0161\u00edm probl\u00e9mem je velk\u00e1 rozvodovost, kter\u00e1 vede k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee v\u00edce jak polovina d\u011bt\u00ed \u017eije pouze s\u00a0jedn\u00edm rodi\u010dem \u010di ve st\u0159\u00eddav\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di. Ani jedna z\u00a0t\u011bchto variant nen\u00ed pro d\u00edt\u011b dokonalou n\u00e1hradou kvalitn\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00ed rodiny, ve kter\u00e9 otec i matka vedou d\u00edt\u011b alespo\u0148 v\u00a0t\u011bch z\u00e1kladn\u00edch ot\u00e1zk\u00e1ch stejn\u00fdm sm\u011brem a d\u00edt\u011b vyr\u016fst\u00e1 v\u00a0l\u00e1skypln\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Rizika voln\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy","item":"https:\/\/www.belagio.cz\/rizika-volne-vychovy\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]